8/02/2011

OLD SKOOL DAZE - AUGUST 2011

LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
I get so inspired around this time of the year.  Geez, I could literally do an entire issue just on bento boxes alone, covering each of my regular features and more!  I have 3 kids going to school this year: one in her second year of high school, two returning to school from being home schooled and my step-daughter is entering her second year of middle school to top it off.  That being the case I find myself in need of plenty of tips on surviving the cost of back-to-school (while planning a wedding for the 10th of September!!)


WEBSITE(s) OF THE MONTH
Free online tutors and homework help -
www.algebra.com
www.eduwizards.com
www.tutoroli.com
www.tutorvista.com/math-help

BOOK OF THE MONTH

Our Schools Suck: Students Talk Back to a Segregated Nation on the Failures of Urban Education by Gaston Alonso, Noel Anderson, Celina Su, Jeanne Theoharis





PRODUCT OF THE MONTH

The classic JanSport SuperBreak backpack



TRADITIONAL HEALTH AND WELLNESS

Heading back to school means being around other kids from other families that have other germs...so let's boost those immune systems that have become so weak in our desperate need to protect our children from those same germs.
8 Foods That Boost Immunity @askdrsears.com


BEAUTY

When your daughter eventually reaches that age, she'll be prepared to put oil-based paint on her face to get the effect she wants, here are some more natural and even organic options that are affordable enough for a fickle teen.
All-Natural Makeup for Your Teen




FASHION

The focus for teens in most homes is on basics, then you worry about fancy trends...
Back School Basics 2011






DIY CRAFTY PROJECT

Martha Stewart has some of the cutest (and easy) ideas for Back to Crafts like this one...
Martha Stewart

MENU PLANNER

There has been a huge buzz for the past couple of years about both the huge failings within our school systems lunch offerings and the traditional Japanese bento box lunches.  The idea of packing a lunch can seem over whelming to some parents and I'm not here to guilt you, but  making lunches for kids using reusable supplies sets a healthy, frugal, and sustainable example to your kids.  Basically, lunchtime is the perfect time for you to cash that check your mouth has been writing all summer.
Flickr
Lunch In a Box
Where to Buy:



GOING GREEN ONE MONTH AT A TIME 

AUGUST - REUSABLE LUNCH GEAR
Reusable lunch gear.even if you use a traditional lunchbox, there is no reason you can't use a cloth napkin and real utensils for you and your kids to wash and reuse.  this saves you money, adds no extra time to the routine since you are already doing the dishes and doing the laundry, and allows for creativity as you choose your lunch time accessories.

SUPPORT THIS

Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution...sign the petition, start a local revolution of your own, or just become more aware of what your kids are eating.
http://www.jamieoliver.com/us/
FEATURES

CHARTER SCHOOLS IN COLUMBUS - Self-Segregation or Honest Option?
by Jennifer Young
I live in Ohio, which has had one of the largest charter school booms in America, currently #4 in the nation according to USNews.com.  We also have the 2nd highest Somali population behind the Twin Cities (in fact if you go to the Somali People page on Wikipedia the picture shown for Somali "geopgraphic distribution" is of a Halaal Market 1 block from my current home that I pass daily) as well as a large and growing Hispanic population.  Columbus, Ohio ranks at #3 in homosexual population in 2011 and is considered to be very middle of the road politically versus the rest of the state.

In this kind of a city, where you are constantly surrounded by those of different origin, religion, creed and sexual orientation, are people struggling to find ways to separate themselves?  It would seem so.  Most of the Charter schools in Columbus consider themselves to be "Afrocentric", many employing the term in their name and are home to mostly African-American and/or Somali children.  These schools tend to employ only teachers from these ethnic groups as well.  Although enrollment must be open to everyone, legally, it is clear once you take a tour, whom these schools were developed for.

Growing up in a country where African-Americans feel the government does everything they can to hold their children back, or try to make them "whiter" it is not surprising that charter schools have become a popular option.  The schools, though publicly funded tend to be more technology and science/math focused then the average public school.  They also create a more strict environment utilizing private school stand-by's such as uniforms and the "honor system".  These visible features have a tendency to lull the parents into thinking their children are getting a better education although most of these schools, on a scale of 1 to 10, test between 2 and 3 on national exams, as released on education.com.  This average is often 3 to 4 below what the nearest public school averages on the same exams.

The charter schools that seem to focus on the Somali population (since it would appear that African-American  citizens are not that interested in accepting Somali immigrants into their lives) fall into many of the same traps, though the parents seem less concerned about the actual education and more concerned that their children will be surrounded by those of the same faith and background.  They feel this is safer for them, religiously, communally and physically.  This is a tactic long employed by immigrants to America.  Creating their own cities within cities has long been practiced from Little Havana to ChinaTown to Little Odessa to Columbus' own German Village.   The Somali population have the extra disadvantages of not just being of a different color then even the general African-American people of our nation, but they are also fervently Muslim.  When worried about your children's physical and spiritual safety, test scores can seem very unimportant.

In Columbus, the top schools in the city also happen to be charter schools, and some are career centers that offer charter school like programs within their walls.  These schools tend to be older and to have arts, media and language focus' over science and math.  These schools also tend to test better in science and math, despite this fact.  Some of these schools are predominantly white, but most are not.  The schools with the highest scores and the most students that move on to college are the same schools that have the most integrated student and teacher populations.  Yes, the most diverse schools are the better schools.

It would seem that although parents may be using charter schools as a way to self-segregate, if betterment and  educational improvement are the true objective, integration would still be the way to go. (this is but my humble observations).

7/29/2011

I'M MELTING...MELTING...MELTING - JULY 2011

LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
GAH, SUMMER...WE WAIT ALL WINTER FOR THEN AS SOON AS IT HITS WE ARE WHINNING ABOUT THE HUMIDUTY AND HOW EXPENSIVE IT IS TO RUN THE A/C.  I AM A TRUE HATER OF BOTH WINTER (PERIOD) AND THE SUN,  I DON'T MIND THE HEAT AS MUCH.  SURE IT'S TOUGH TO SLEEP AND THE IDEA OF CLEANING THE HOUSE WHILE DRIPPING SWEAT ALL OVER THE PLACE IS NEVER PLEASANT, I WILL TAKE THAT OVER WINTER ANYTIME.  I ALSO CANNOT DO THE SUN VERY WELL. GOING OUT AND SPENDING THE DAY AT THE PARK ON A DAY WHEN THE SUN IS AT FULL BLAST IS THE SAME THING AS FORCE FEEDING ME SPOILED FOOD...IT IS NOT GOING TO END WELL FOR ANYONE INVOLVED.  THAT BEING SAID, I HOPE THAT SOME OF THIS INFORMATION HERE WILL HELP YOU ENJOYING THE HUMIDITY AND THE SUN, OR AT LEAST TOLERATE IT.

WEBSITE OF THE MONTH
I ADMIT, THIS IS NOT THE MOST FRUGAL SITE FOR KIDS CLOTHES, BUT IF YOU ARE THE MOOD FOR SOME SUPER CUTE IDEAS, JUST WANT TO BROWSE, OR ARE LOOKING FOR THAT ONE SPECIAL PIECE FOR AN EVENT, THIS IS THE PLACE...MINI BODEN CLOTHES

BOOK OF THE MONTH
Photobucket
ALL MY FRIENDS ARE DEAD BY AVERY MONSON AND JORY JOHNS...A LOVELY LITTLE TAIL OF PEOPLE AND ANIMALS WHOSE FRIENDS ARE, UM, ALREADY DEAD.

PRODUCT OF THE MONTH
SUN SHADES FOR BABY - SOME BABIES ARE MORE PRONE TO SUNBURN, HEAT EXHAUSTION AND SUNSTROKE THEN OTHERS, BUT WHO WANTS TO TAKE THE CHANCE?  MAYBE IT'S PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH ME THAT CAUSES ME TO FRET, BECAUSE MY CHILDREN AND MYSELF ARE SUN SENSITIVE (WE DON'T BURN, WE GET REALLY OVERHEATED AND SICK) BUT I THINK THESE SUN SHIELD/PLAY TENTS ARE GREAT.

TRADITONAL WELLNESS
CALENDULA
CALENDULA (AKA MARIGOLD) IS USEFUL FOR MINOR WOUNDS, SKIN INFECTIONS, BURNS, BEE STINGS, SUNBURN, WARTS AND EVEN SKIN CONDITIONS CAUSED BY CANCER/CANCER TREATMENTS. IT CAN ALSO BE USED TO HELP WITH THE PAIN OF AN EAR INFECTION OR ULCEROUS SORES ON THE LEGS.

PLEASE CHECK WITH A DOCTOR BEFORE USING ANY TREATMENT...AVOID IF PREGNANT OR TRYING TO GET PREGNANT (INCLUDING MEN) AS IT HAS BEEN LINKED WITH SPONTANEOUS ABORTION AND LOW SPERM COUNT.


BEAUTY
IN CASE I DON'T SAY IT ENOUGH...TINTED LIP BALM!!! IS THE SINGLE GREATEST PRODUCT YOU CAN HAVE IN YOUR ARSENAL.  SERIOUSLY, MOISTURIZER, SPF AND COLOR IN ONE.  IT CAN TAKE YOU FROM COMPLETELY BARE FACED TO PURPOSEFULLY FRESH-FACED IN SECONDS.  
Burt's Bees
Badger Balm
Yes to Carrots 

FASHION
SISTERS OF THE BLACK MOON, A TRIO OF VERY MODERN WITCHY WOMEN HAVE MADE IT PART OF THEIR PURPOSE TO BRING YOU NEW AND VINTAGE FASHION TREATS.  IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A PAIR OF CROCHET PANTS, A BEAUTIFUL VINTAGE MAXI DRESS OR THE CONNECTION TO FIND A TRULY FABULOUS TOOLED LEATHER BELT WITH FEATHERS, THESE ARE YOUR WOMEN.  YOU WILL LOVE THE EATHERAL GAUZE AND SILK OPTIONS THESE LADIES OFFER VIA THEIR EBAY SHOP AND YOU WILL WANT TO GO BACK AGAIN AND AGAIN...ESPECIALLY FOR FALL ITEMS LIKE LEATHER JACKETS, FUR VESTS AND VINTAGE BELLBOTTOMS.  www.sistersoftheblackmoon.com

DIY CRAFTY PROJECT

GOING GREEN ONE MONTH AT A TIME - JULY
COMPOSTING
COMPOSTING IS PRETTY OLD SCHOOL. IT'S THE USE OF YARD AND KITCHEN SCRAPS TO CREATE A NUTRIENT RICH, ORGANIC PLANTING SOIL. IT'S BASED ON THE NATURAL PROCESS THAT OCCURS IN THE WILD ANYWAY. SINCE WE ARE HUMANS AND TEND TO RETARD ALL THE PROCESSES WE COME INTO CONTACT WITH, WHAT WOULD NORMALLY HAPPEN ANYWAY BECOMES A "PROCESS" WE MUST MASTER.

COMPOSTING NEEDS AIR, WATER AND "FOOD". A COMPOST PILE MUST HAVE GOOD AIR FLOW IN ORDER FOR THE MICROBES TO BREAK DOWN THE ORGANIC MATERIALS QUICKLY WITHOUT SMELLING GAWD-AWFUL. IT ALSO NEEDS WATER, IT MUST MAINTAIN A LEVEL OF MOISTURE THAT PERMITS THE ENTIRE THING TO BE COVERED IN A FILM OF WATER ALL THE TIME. FINALLY, IT NEEDS FOOD - BROWN AND GREEN.ADDING STRAW TO THE PILE WHEN YOU "TURN" IT WILL ALLOW FOR GOOD AIR FLOW. ADDING WATER EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE WHEN IT IS GETTING DRY. BROWN FOODS ARE ITEMS ADDED THAT ARE DRY AND DEAD LIKE STRAW, DEAD WEEDS, AUTUMN LEAVES, WOOD CHIPS, SAWDUST. GREEN FOODS INCLUDE KITCHEN SCRAPS (NO ANIMAL PRODUCTS) AND YARD CLIPPINGS, COFFEE GROUNDS, TEA BAGS, ETC.

THERE IS A MYTH THAT YOUR COMPOST PILE MUST BE HOT IN ORDER TO WORK. THOUGH IT WILL GO DORMANT IF YOU LIVE IN COLD CLIMATE DURING THE WINTER, 50 DEGREES AND HIGHER IS PLENTY.YOUR COMPOST IS FINISHED WHEN IT HAS ACHIEVED A DARK COLOR, SMELL LIKE SOIL AND ALL THE INGREDIENTS ARE INDISTINGUISHABLE FROM EACH OTHER.


MENU PLANNER
GREEN B.E.A.N. DELIVERY -  THIS IS A SERVICE CURRENTLY AVAILABLE IN PARTS OF OHIO, INDIANA AND KENTUCKY THAT DELIVERS FRESH, LOCAL ORGANIC PRODUCE AND PACKAGED PRODUCTS RIGHT TO YOUR DOOR ON EITHER A WEEKLY OR BI-WEEKLY BASIS.  YOU SET UP A STANDING ORDER THEN ADD OR SUBTRACT FROM IT AS NEEDED AND THEY BRING IT RIGHT TO YOU.  PERFECT FOR BUSY PARENTS WITH NO CAR, OR BUSY PARENTS IN GENERAL, FOR THAT MATTER.  FARMERS MARKETS ARE GREAT, BUT IF YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO NOT HAVE A CAR, THEY CAN RATHER DIFFICULT TO GET HOME FROM WITH PRODUCE IN TOW.

FEATURES

(this isn't a regular feature, but i think it is important and should be thought about)


TRAVELING WITH KIDS - WHO'S IDEA WAS THIS? (CAUSE I'M BLAMING YOU ANYWAY)

REMEMBER THOSE ON-A-WHIM, LET'S  GET IN THE CAR AND GO TO A MCDONALD'S IN THE NEXT STATE FOR NO REASON CAR TRIPS.  I HOPE SO CAUSE THAT'S NOT HAPPENING AGAIN FOR A WHILE.  GONE ARE THE DAYS OF ANYTHING TRULY BEING DONE ON A WHIM.  TRAVELING WITH KIDS IS SOMETHING BEYOND DESCRIPTION, AND THOUGH IT CAN BE FUN, YOU WILL OFTEN FIND THAT YOU HAVE TO ACTIVELY SEEK OUT THE ROSY SIDE.  I'M NOT TRYING TO DISCOURAGE YOU AT ALL, I BELIEVE IT IS INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT FOR KIDS TO SEE THE WORLD, TO MEET THEIR FAMILIES AND JUST TO EXPERIENCE LIFE MORE THEN 5 MILES FROM THEIR FRONT DOOR (NOTHING MAKES ME SADDER THEN STORIES OF "CITY KIDS" THAT HAVE NEVER SEEN A COW OR RUN IN A FIELD, OR A "COUNTRY KID" THAT HAS NEVER RIDDEN A BUS OR BEEN TO A MUSEUM).

TRAVELING WITH KIDS STILL IN DIAPERS, OR THAT CANNOT BE TRUSTED TO WALK ANY DISTANCE ON THEIR OWN WITHOUT RUNNING OFF OR EXHAUSTING THEMSELVES CAN BE THE MOST DIFFICULT AGE TO TRAVEL WITH.  EVEN GRUMPIER TEENS, THOUGH ANNOYING IN THEIR OWN WAY, CAN RUN UNDER THEIR OWN POWER AND USE THE FACILITIES ON THEIR OWN WITHOUT MOM OR DAD'S HELP.  A BRIGHT AND SHINEY TODDLER BRINGS WITH THEM A WHOLE SET OF ISSUES THAT WITH SOME PRE-PLANNING AND CREATIVE PACKING CAN BE MINIMIZED SO THAT THE FUN CAN BE MAXIMIZED.

NUMBER ONE - USE THE INTERNET FOR RESEARCH.  I LITERALLY CANNOT EMPHASIZE THIS ENOUGH.  IT WILL BE YOUR BEST FRIEND.  FIND OUT ALL THE TODDLER FRIENDLY PLACES IN THE AREA THAT YOU CAN BEFORE HAND SO YOU CAN HAVE ACTIVITIES PLANNED OR USE THEM AS BACKUP PLANS IF THE KIDS START TO GET BORED.  CHILLIN' AT GRANDMA'S FANCY "DON'T TOUCH ANYTHING" HOUSE GETTING TO BE LITTLE TOO MUCH BUT YOU KNOW THERE'S A BOUNCY HOUSE JUST DOWN THE ROAD?...HIT IT UP AND LET THE KIDS GET THAT PENT UP ENERGY OUT.  WHINING WILL DIMINISH IMMEDIATELY.  YOU CAN ALSO USE THE INTERNET TO MAP OUT ROADWAY CONSTRUCTION (TO AVOID IF POSSIBLE) AND TOLL ROADS, CHECK OUT THE HOTELS WITH THE MOST KID FRIENDLY AMMENITIES, ETC.

PACK WISELY - IF YOU ARE LUCKY ENOUGH TO HAVE A TODDLER THAT DOESN'T CARE WHAT THEY WEAR, THEN YOU ARE ALREADY AHEAD OF THE GAME.  PACK THINGS THAT ARE MIX-N-MATCH TO MAXIMIZE OUTFIT OPTIONS WITH MINIMAL PACKING.  IF YOU HAVE A PICKIER TODDLER, NEGOTIATE WITH THEM (THIS WILL COME IN HANDY WITH TOY PACKING AS WELL), YOU CAN BRING ONE BUT NOT BOTH STRATEGY GIVES THEM A SENSE OF CONTROL AND GIVES YOU A LITTLE SUITCASE.  ALSO, ANYTHING THAT DOES DOUBLE DUTY OR CAN BE FOLDED IN ON IT SELF, LIKE A RAIN JACKET THAT FOLDS INTO ITS OWN POCKET, ARE VERY ADVANTAGEOUS AS WELL.

IF TRAVELING TO MORE REMOTE AREAS, OR ANYWHERE THAT WILL CONSIST OF A LOT OF OUTSIDE TIME AND WALKING MAKE SURE YOU ARE PREPARED WITH OPTIONS ON HOW TO CARRY THE KID, WHETHER A SLING, A FRAMED BACKPACK OR A STROLLER, MAKE SURE YOU'VE TRIED IT OUT AND YOU ARE COMFORTABLE WITH IT.  WHAT'S THE POINT OF STROLLER MEANT TO OFFER CONVENIENCE IF IT'S TOO BIG TO BE BOTHERED WITH OR TOO SHORT TO BE COMFORTABLE...OR A SLING NOT MADE FOR THE SIZE OF YOUR CHILD THAT CUTS INTO YOUR SHOULDER AND HER LEGS?  OF NO USE AT ALL!



AS SILLY AS THIS MIGHT SOUND, CONSIDER BATHROOM SITUATIONS TOO.  IF YOU HAVE A POTTY TRAINED TODDLER BUT YOU ARE GOING CAMPING IN A SOMEWHAT REMOTE AREA, POOPING IN THE WOODS CAN TURN SOME KIDS OFF BUT DIAPERS COULD SET THEM BACK...TRY AN INFLATABLE OR FOLDING TRAVEL POTTY WITH DISPOSABLE BAGS.  THEY FOLD DOWN ENOUGH TO FIT IN A BACKPACK AND GIVE YOUR KID THE OPTION (IT ALSO HELPS WITH "PACK IN PACK OUT" AND SAVES THE TIME OF HAVING TO DIG A HOLE EVERY TIME).  


IF YOU ARE STAYING IN A HOTEL, CHECK TO SEE IF THEY OFFER CRIBS. IF NOT THERE ARE ALL SORTS OF NEW PACK-N-PLAY/CRIB OPTIONS OUT THERE, INCLUDING INFLATABLE JOBS THAT FIT IN A BACK PACK AND COME WITH THEIR OWN PUMP.  THESE ARE GREAT FOR CAMPING TOO SO YOU DON'T WAKE UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO FIND YOUR LITTLE ONE HAS WONDERED OFF.



SEATING CAN BE ISSUE TOO.  IF YOUR CHILD IS STILL IN NEED OF A BOOSTER OR A HIGH CHAIR, THERE ARE PORTABLE OPTIONS TO CONSIDER, FROM ADD-ON'S TO THEIR BUMBO TO INFLATABLE BOOSTERS.

OTHER ITEMS YOU MIGHT CONSIDER BRINGING ALONG, IF YOU HAVE THE ROOM TO PACK THEM AND THE DESIRE TO CREATE AN ENVIRONMENT AS CLOSE TO HOME AS YOU CAN, ARE AS VARIED AS YOU CAN IMAGINE.  FOLDING SAFETY GATES, INFLATABLE BABY TUBS, FOLD-UP ACTIVITY SEATS.  YOU NAME IT, THERE IS PROBABLY A TRAVEL VERSION SOMEWHERE.